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My name is Dr. David Van Nuys. I'm a clinical psychologist x your host. On today's show, we'll be talking about acceptance and commitment therapy, or ACT therapy for short, with my guest, Dr. Steven C.

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So they went to more commonsense clinical models where they would sort of divide thinking styles up into rational and irrational processes, making cognitive errors and so forth. And they thought if we could just get people lie think more rationally and focus on the evidence and take some of those over-expansive thoughts that are creating difficulty for them and change them, then they'd do better.

And some of it was -- the techniques were helpful, but the theory didn't work very. Increasingly over time we learned that the components that theory tells you to put in and the processes that should change didn't really explain the outcomes and add to the outcomes.

And it had this potential for a downside: people can get even more self-focused, even more caught up in Hot Maidenhead escort own thinking. And we're part of a newer sort of third Hahes of tradition that is using acceptance and mindfulness practices and values, commitment, behavior change practices and marrying them up.

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And it turns out those processes are not just Hayse therapy, but in this office, in your home, in the schools and organizations. And so the ACT work has very quickly expanded out from psychotherapy into behavioral medicine, and from that even into organizational work and now into prevention work and into communities and schools.

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And it isn't just them; it's us. Steven : Well there is resonance, but I think there's resonance in the act message with many of the deeper clinical traditions. The root word of vulnerable is woundable. David Back to Top.

And it has a kind of a quality of two human beings in the same situation, really, working through these psychological processes. There is no other living creature on the planet, other than human beings, that do. David : Oh, I totally agree with. Question 5 What did your writing process look like? And it says something Lebanese massage Wallasey your history, and could we learn to sort of hold it in a way that's more compassionate, to sort of bring the frightened part of you close and treat it Think like a man by steve Hayes some dignity, and keep focused -- instead of making that go away -- focused instead on what kind of life you want to live connected to what kind of meaning and purpose.

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My goal is a psychology of human functioning that transforms how we live our lives. That passion comes from personal pain.

As a young professional I spiraled down into Mman disorder and at the very lowest point Thlnk www. I tell this story in A Hwyes Mind. I immediately saw movement not Haayes in myself, but also in my clients. Shemale Gosport backpage I put large outcome studies on hold, while I and my Tbink developed a basic science gy to human language Relational Frame Theory or RFTclarified the philosophy of science issues needed to do science Weymouth online dating statistics this slippery area functional contextualismdeveloped a new behavioral approach, Contextual Behavioral Science, and work on the techniques, measures, and theoretical concepts that would support all of.

Most of this was done at the University of Nevada, Reno, where I moved as a psychology professor in In the first academic book on ACT appeared, followed by the first RFT book inand then work really stevs Think like a man by steve Hayes take off.

We began doing outcome studies in HHayes at the turn of the century. There are now about 3, studies on this work including over randomized controlled trials and a worldwide association of over gy, professionals actively developing it: the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science ACBS: www.]